6.43 Their weapons and my body—
Both are causes of my suffering!
They their weapons drew, while I held out my body.
Who then is more worthy of my anger?
6.44 This human form is like a running sore;
Merely touched, it cannot stand the pain!
I’m the one who clings to it with blind attachment;
Whom should I resent when pain occurs?
Who to Blame?
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The Lay Life
Long life
can’t be gotten with wealth,
nor aging
warded off with treasure.
The wise say this life
is next to nothing —
impermanent,
subject to change.
The rich & the poor
touch the touch of Death.
The foolish & wise
are touched by it, too.
But while fools lie as if slain by their folly,
the wise don’t tremble
when touched by the touch.
Thus the discernment by which
one attains to mastery,
is better than wealth —
for those who haven’t reached mastery
go from existence to existence,
out of delusion,
doing bad deeds.
One goes to a womb
& to the next world,
falling into the wandering on
— one thing
after another —
while those of weak discernment,
trusting in one,
also go to a womb
& to the next world.
Just as an evil thief
caught at the break-in
is destroyed
by his own act,
so evil people
— after dying, in the next world —
are destroyed
by their own acts.
Sensual pleasures —
variegated,
enticing,
sweet —
in various ways disturb the mind.
Seeing the drawbacks in sensual objects:
that’s why, O king, I went forth.
Just like fruits, people fall
— young & old —
at the break-up of the body.
Knowing this, O king,
I went forth.
The contemplative life is better
for sure.
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Devanussati
My mind has been lurching towards negativity in the past few weeks so, on the advice of many great ajahns, I’m trying to right the ship by brightening the mind. The traditional approach of cultivating metta has been a great help but contemplation of celestial Bodhisattas has given me yet another avenue to explore.
I have always been attracted to the six syllable mantra of Avalokiteshvara but could never quite settle upon a perception that would help to cultivate compassion. Luckily, through a kind of involuntary persistence and the teaching of Ajahn Achalo, I have now settled into using the mantra as an aide to devanussati. Ajahn had said that he has spoken with other mahatheras with the divine eye who have personally spoken with Avalokiteshvara. This shouldn’t change the exercise of devanussati but it does for me: I can both reflect on the highly developed compassion and wisdom of such a being and simultaneously try to make a connection and call for help in overcoming my defilements. In a strange way, I now feel less alone and more determined.
May we all practice to free ourselves from the defilements and become less of a burden upon beings.
Om mani padme hum.
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What Comes Next?
It’s tiring to be forever dragged into myriad possible futures by the mind. How many horrors, nightmares and losses await? How many moments of insight, heart-filling acts of compassion? Granted, I never worry about the latter but the point is that I’m forever flying off into the future.
And then there are those moments when I become suddenly aware of the breath. My parikamma buddho arises and the body fills with ease. And then it is gone again. But, how precious and portentitious it is to experience these ephemera.
May I never be separated from the Dhamma and may I practice to gain surety and safety.
Posted in Buddha, Buddhism, Buddho, Daily Practice, Dhamma, Formal Meditation, Meditation Word, Theravada | Tags: Anxiety, present, worry
Moderation
“When a man is always mindful,
Knowing moderation in the food he eats,
His ailments then diminish,
He ages slowly, guarding his life.”
For some time I have been experimenting with intermittent fasting in the hope that it would strengthen my resolve and help to generate compassion. Unfortunately,it doesn’t seem to have worked that way.
If anything, long periods of fasting have lead me to overeat and lose all restraint; the exact opposite of what I’ve been trying to achieve. My experiments with fasting have little to do with weight loss and everything to do with bringing the mind under control. Therefore, it’s time for a new approach.
What I hope to do is eat three meals a day but pay complete attention to the craving as I eat. By not allowing myself to eat mindlessly by snacking, I hope to see more clearly what I’m doing when I eat. It occurred to me that, currently, when I eat I continue until the pain of eating forces me to stop. So I bounce from the suffering of hunger to the suffering of being over full. I have a sneaking suspicion that one can never find a point of true satiety but this remains to be seen. If one could, though, what would be the point of the Dhamma?
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Cattari Arya Saccani
i. Idaṁ kho pana bhikkhave dukkhaṁ ariyasaccaṁ:
Now this, monks, is the noble truth of suffering:
jāti pi dukkhā
birth is suffering
jarā pi dukkhā
also old age is suffering
vyādhi pi dukkho
also sickness is suffering
maraṇam-pi dukkhaṁ
also death is suffering
appiyehi sampayogo dukkho
being joined to what is not dear is suffering
piyehi vippayogo dukkho
being separated from what is dear is suffering
yam-picchaṁ na labhati tam-pi dukkhaṁ
also not to obtain what one longs for is suffering
saṅkhittena pañcupādānakkhandhā dukkhā
in brief, the five constituent groups (of mind and body) that provide fuel for
attachment are suffering.
ii. Idaṁ kho pana bhikkhave dukkhasamudayaṁ ariyasaccaṁ:
Now this, monks, is the noble truth of the arising of suffering:
yā yaṁ taṇhā ponobhavikā,
it is that craving which leads to continuation in existence,
nandirāgasahagatā, tatratatrābhinandinī, seyyathīdaṁ:
which is connected with enjoyment and passion, greatly enjoying this and that, as
follows:
kāmataṇhā
craving for sense pleasures
bhavataṇhā
craving for continuation
vibhavataṇhā.
craving for discontinuation.
iii. Idaṁ kho pana bhikkhave dukkhanirodhaṁ ariyasaccaṁ:
Now this, monks, is the noble truth of the cessation of suffering:
yo tassā yeva taṇhāya asesavirāganirodho –
it is the complete fading away and cessation without remainder of that craving –
cāgo, paṭinissaggo, mutti, anālayo.
liberation, letting go, release, and non-adherence.
iv. Idaṁ kho pana bhikkhave,
Now this, monks,
dukkhanirodhagāminī paṭipadā ariyasaccaṁ:
is the noble truth of the practice leading to the end of suffering:
Ayam-eva ariyo aṭṭhaṅgiko maggo, seyyathīdam:
It is this noble path with eight factors, as follows:
sammādiṭṭhi
right view
sammāsaṅkappo
right thought
sammāvācā
right speech
sammākammanto
right action
sammā-ājīvo
right livelihood
sammāvāyāmo
right effort
sammāsati
right mindfulness
sammāsamādhi.
right concentration.
Enduring
Last night I lost it. It had been a long day of shuttling kids between boroughs to my wife,to school, to ballet and back again and, just as I had begun the dishes after the dinner I made my wife began to lay into me.
According to her, I’m failing at noisy of the things I’m doing. Failing as a father for not taking the kids to cub scouts late when she makes it in the door right as the meeting begins. Failing to make enough money (although I doubt she would put it in those words). Failing to be unfailingly nice to her. And, falling at being a husband and father.
So, I lost it. Threw the bowl I had been washing into the sink and left it there broken as I ran out the door to cool off. Of course, we are here again: she wants to talk about divorce. Frankly, I will give it to her if that’s what she wants but I’m not interested in “figuring it out.” The truth is that divorce is a horrible option for all involved and I would rather stay in an affectionless marriage due the next eighteen years than do that to my children.
I promised to talk to her about it and I will tonight but am I being selfish for not helping her figure out how to exit in the best possible way? I would give her as much as I could while still being able to pay for a place to live for myself but, in this city, that won’t leave much. Certainly not enough for vacations and dozens of classes. We shall see bit wish me fortitude and forbearance.
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A Refuge for the Mind
All day long, from the moment I wake until sleep takes me, my mind races among the coursing streams of thought. Funny that I have so often viewed anapanasati as a core when it is truly a refuge and respite from the endless proliferation of thinking.
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The Fortune of Suffering
Listened to a Dhamma talk by Ajahn Achalo this afternoon while folding clothes and the subject was why some devas envy humans. In short, the human realm delivers the perfect mix of pleasure and suffering to allow wisdom and insight to ripen in a way that is very difficult in the higher realms. In fact, it is said that until the very end of their lives, devata don’t know bodily suffering and separation from the dear. As such, there’s little opportunity to develop insight into dukkha. Let us, then, be thankful for our sufferings and not waste them. May we stand under, bear with and gain insight into suffering.
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