Posted by: Michael | 08/30/2019

Complicit

2. Mind precedes all mental states. Mind is their chief; they are all mind-wrought. If with a pure mind a person speaks or acts happiness follows him like his never-departing shadow

3. “He abused me, he struck me, he overpowered me, he robbed me.” Those who harbor such thoughts do not still their hatred.

4. “He abused me, he struck me, he overpowered me, he robbed me.” Those who do not harbor such thoughts still their hatred.

5. Hatred is never appeased by hatred in this world. By non-hatred alone is hatred appeased. This is a law eternal.

―Dhammapada, Chapter 1, The Pairs

“Remember, it is not enough to be hit or insulted to be harmed, you must believe that you are being harmed. If someone succeeds in provoking you, realize that your mind is complicit in the provocation. Which is why it is essential that we not respond impulsively to impressions; take a moment before reacting, and you will find it easier to maintain control.”

― Epictetus, The Art of Living: The Classical Manual on Virtue, Happiness and Effectiveness

I can scarcely believe it but when I stop to consider the matter I see it’s true: I cannot feel insulted or abused if I don’t cooperate. Why should I be disturbed by the fragmented thoughts and opinions of another even when they appear, malformed in their speech? What control di I have over theirminds or mouths when it is almost too much to rein in my own?

Surely I will forget and fall under the delusion that I can and should correct anything but the best opinions of this fantasm I call myself. But, at least in these small moments away from the cascade of criticisms I can remember this is not me, not myself and over this I have no control.

May I recall how anger and fault-finding burn the mind and may I generate a heart of compassion for those whose mind are thus poisoned.

Posted by: Michael | 08/29/2019

When Should It Be Done

Before undertaking any course of action I should ask myself three things:

  1. Will this act strengthen me or lead to weakness in body and mind?
  2. Will this act be for my long term benefit and gain?
  3. Is this act motivated by greed (lust), hatred or delusion?

It seems so simple when it’s enumerated like this and yet how many times since I awoke today have I chosen short-term pleasure that is based on greed and leads only to weakness? Too many.

May I always remember to ask these questions before I think, speak or act.

Posted by: Michael | 08/28/2019

Advice from a Soldier

I’m always fighting. I’m struggling and I’m scraping and kicking and clawing at those weaknesses—to change them. To stop them. Some days I win. But some days I don’t. But each and every day: I get back up and I move forward. With my fists clenched. Toward the battle. Toward the struggle. And I fight with everything I’ve got: To overcome those weaknesses and those shortfalls and those flaws as strive to be just a little bit better today.

-Jocko Willink

I never would have believed I would be looking to a soldier, a trained killer for insight into how to tame my unruly defilements but here I am. Without sila there can be no samadhi nor pañña so it’s time for me to get serious.

Posted by: Michael | 08/27/2019

To Know Better

How could anyone gain self-control, if he only knew theoretically that one should resist pleasure, but never practiced resisting it?

Musonius Rufus

Posted by: Michael | 08/26/2019

Wrong Choices

I keep choosing the path of least resistance. I keep choosing the quick fix. Why? Do I really not believe that I will end up in the lower realms?

Whatever fruit ripens may I eat it with no complaint. May I accept my fate with ardency and a determination to improve my lot. How much hubris to soak of freeing other beings when I can’t even free myself from my own misdeeds! My akusala kamma rates away at me as rust, produce by the self-same iron eats itself away.

Posted by: Michael | 08/24/2019

Never Stop Fighting the Defilements

Posted by: Michael | 08/23/2019

Happy Uposatha – Release Over Justice

Restorative justice—the justice that seeks to return situations to their proper state before the first stone was thrown—requires not only a specific beginning point in time, but also that that beginning point be a good place to which to return.

Distributive justice—the justice that seeks to determine who should have what, and how resources and opportunities should be redistributed from those who have them to those who should have them—requires a common source, above and beyond individuals, from which all things flow and that sets the purposes those things should serve.

Only when their respective conditions are met can these forms of justice be objective and binding on all. In the Buddha’s worldview, though, none of these conditions hold. People have tried to import Western ideas of objective justice into the Buddha’s teachings—some have even suggested that this will be one of the great Western contributions to Buddhism, filling in a serious lack—but there is no way that those ideas can be forced on the Dhamma without doing serious damage to the Buddhist worldview. This fact, in and of itself, has prompted many people to advocate jettisoning the Buddhist worldview and replacing it with something closer to one of our own. But a careful look at that worldview, and the consequences that the Buddha drew from it, shows that the Buddha’s teachings on how to find social harmony without recourse to objective standards of justice has much to recommend it.

https://www.dhammatalks.org/books/uncollected/Justice.html

Posted by: Michael | 08/22/2019

What Lust?

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148 Lust for a woman mostly comes
From thinking that her body is clean,
But there is nothing clean
In a woman’s body in fact.

149 The mouth is a vessel of foul saliva
And scum between the teeth,
The nose a vessel of snot, slime, and mucus,
The eyes are vessels of tears and other
excretions.

150 The abdomen and chest is a vessel
Of feces, urine, lungs, liver, and so forth.
Those who through obscuration do not see
A woman this way, lust for her body.

151 Just as some fools desire
An ornamented pot filled with what is unclean,
So ignorant, obscured
Worldly beings desire women.

152 If the world is greatly attached
Even to this ever-so-smelly body
Which should cause loss of attachment,
How can it be led to freedom from desire?

153 Just as pigs are greatly attached
To a site of excrement, urine, and vomit,
So some lustful ones desire
A site of excrement, urine, and vomit.

154 This city of a body with protruding holes
From which impurities emerge
Is called an object of pleasure
By beings who are stupid.

155 Once you yourself have seen the impurities
Of excrement, urine, and so forth,
How could you be attracted
To a body composed of those?

156 Why should you lust desirously for this
While recognizing it as an unclean form
Produced by a seed whose essence is impure,
A mixture of blood and semen?

157 One who lies on this impure mass
Covered by skin moistened
With those fluids, merely lies
On top of a woman’s bladder.

158 If whether beautiful or ugly,
Whether old or young,
All female bodies are unclean,
From what attribute does your lust arise?

159 Just as it is not fit to desire
Filth although it has a good color,
Is very fresh, and has a nice shape,
So is it with a woman’s body.

160 How could the nature of this putrid corpse,
A rotten mass covered outside by skin,
Not be seen when it looks
So very horrible?

161 “The skin is not foul,
It is like a garment.”
Like a hide over a mass of impurities
How could it be clean?

162 A pot though beautiful outside,
Is reviled when filled with impurities.
Why is the body, filled with impurities
And foul by nature, not reviled?

163 If you revile against impurities,
Why not against this body
Which befouls clean scents,
Garlands, food, and drink?

164 Just as one’s own or others’
Impurities are reviled,
Why not revile against one’s own
And others’ unclean bodies?

165 Since your own body is
As unclean as a woman’s,
Is it not suitable to part
From desire for self and other?

166 If you yourself wash this body
Dripping from the nine wounds [The nine orifices are eyes, ears, nostrils, mouth, genitalia, and anus]
And still do not think it unclean,
What use is [religious] instruction for you?

167 Whoever composes poetry
With metaphors elevating this body—
O how shameless! O how stupid!
How embarrassing before [wise]beings!

168 Moreover, these sentient beings—
Obscured by the darkness of ignorance—
Quarrel most over what they desire,
Like dogs for the sake of some dirty thing.

169 There is pleasure when a sore is scratched,
But to be without sores is more pleasurable
still.
Just so, there are pleasures in worldly desires,
But to be without desires is more pleasurable
still.

170 If you analyze thus, even though
You do not achieve freedom from desire,
Because your desire has lessened
You will not lust for women.

-Nagarjuna,- Precious Garland

Posted by: Michael | 08/22/2019

Modesty and Mudita

I posted the quote above to my FB wall and a kalyanamitta responded that they would like me to share the good I’ve done. I also posted a similar quote earlier in the day by Epictetus and a Venerable bhikkhu friend corrected me in the same way. He said if there is no conceit (mana) in the mind then it is appropriate to speak of one’s good deeds.

Clearly, this is a conundrum. How does one avoid becoming puffed up while at the same time cultivating an appreciation for goodness? To me it seems that the only real way to navigate the situation is through speaking of one’s goodness only work kalyanamitta. In mixed company one is liable to inspire hatred and resentment. And, true kalyanamitta keep us honest, correcting is when we’ve gone astray.

Posted by: Michael | 08/21/2019

Right Speech

In your conversation, don’t dwell at excessive length on your own deeds or adventures. Just because you enjoy recounting your exploits doesn’t mean that others derive the same pleasure from hearing about them. (Enchiridion XXXIII. 14)

How often am I really just waiting for someone to finish speaking before jumping in to tell them how I feel or what my thoughts are? How much time do I spend listening and how much planning my next word?

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