Cattāri Brahmavihārā

Futuwwah means opposing and arguing little, being fair; preventing errors in oneself and not criticizing the errors in others; lowering one’s ego; being pleasant both to the old and the young, doing good deeds, giving good advice, and accepting advice; loving one’s friends, and bearing peacefully with one’s enemies. These are the visible aspects of the path that are sufficient for us to know until we are able to hear and tell about the truths of futuwwah.⁽⁴⁾